It's not perfect. It's parenting.
Sometimes you need answers to the little everyday things that parents encounter. And sometimes, you just need someone to encourage you through all of the craziness and challenges of parenthood. Welcome to Parent-ish, a blog from the experts at Children's Mercy.
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Protecting kids during respiratory virus season
Stay informed this respiratory virus season. Learn how to protect your family from RSV, flu and COVID-19 with essential tips from Children's Mercy.
From ‘no’ to know — Rules and teaching moments
As a clinical psychologist and parent advocate, I often remind families that rules aren’t just about control, they’re about connection. When we shift our mindset from enforcing boundaries to cultivating values, rules become powerful tools for emotional growth, cognitive development and relational trust. Keep reading to explore how everyday discipline can become a series of teachable moments that help children not just follow directions but understand themselves and the world around them.
Pediatric specialists your child should see - and when
Your child’s health journey involves more than just visits to the pediatrician. While some pediatric health specialists are essential for every child’s development and preventive care, others are needed based on specific symptoms or conditions. This guide helps parents understand when to schedule those important appointments.
Debunking common autism myths
Families navigating an autism diagnosis often encounter a flood of conflicting information, especially online and in the media. Misinformation and myths can make it harder to understand what autism really is and how best to support autistic children. We're sharing some of the most common myths addressed using current research and clinical insights, with the goal of helping parents feel more confident and informed.
Helping kids when they feel left out
It’s hard to see your child come home feeling sad, quiet or upset. Sometimes, it’s because they feel left out. Being left out can hurt, especially as kids get older and friendships become more important. So how can parents tell when something’s wrong, help their child feel better and teach them how to handle tough moments? Here are some tips.
How to choose a pediatrician for your child – tips from real parents
We asked some parents in our community to share tips on how they chose the pediatrician that was right for their family. If you need a pediatrician, consider these helpful tips.
Adulting 101: Teaching kids about money
Talking to kids about money can be tricky. But learning how money works is important and it’s best to start early. When kids understand saving, spending and earning, they’re more ready for real life. Keep reading for some easy ways parents can teach kids about money basics.
Family meetings: A simple way to stay connected
Life gets busy. Between school, sports, work and everything else, it’s easy for families to feel out of sync. That’s where family meetings come in! We talked to a few families in our community to learn how they tackle meetings – frequency, agenda and more – to give you ideas for your family!
Parenting in the age of AI
Artificial intelligence (AI) is no longer a futuristic concept; it is a part of our daily lives. Whether it is the voice that answers your questions on a smart speaker or the app that recommends your next favorite show, AI is quietly working behind the scenes. Even though it is everywhere, there are not many clear rules about how it should be used, especially when it comes to kids.
Kid safety 101 for grandparents
Grandparents, you’re a vital part of your grandkids’ lives — and an essential source of mental health respite for parents, too. The Children’s Mercy 2025 Community Health Needs Assessment found there are 7,811 households with grandparents raising grandchildren in the Kansas City area alone! Whether you're watching your grandkids on a regular basis or having them stay for a visit, we have some essential tips to help keep your little loved ones safe.
Why free play is so important for your child
Kids love to play — and that’s a good thing! Play isn’t just fun, it helps children grow strong, think better and feel happier. One of the best kinds of play is called free play. It’s simple, fun and super important for your child’s health and development.
What to do when your child gets an animal bite
Children are naturally curious, and sometimes that leads to unexpected encounters with animals—whether it’s a playful pet or a wild creature. While most bites are minor, some can lead to serious infections or require special medical attention. Here's what parents need to know about keeping their children safe and ensuring proper treatment for an animal bite.
Crafts for the uncrafty
Children are likely to spend more time on screens during the summer months. One way to get their minds working is…crafts! Stimulating activities like crafts can calm the mind, encourage creativity and advance fine motor skills in children.
Outbreaks don’t come with a manual – but this can help
Let’s be real: parenting during an outbreak like the flu or measles is like trying to juggle flaming swords while riding a unicycle—on a tightrope—over a pit of Legos. It’s a lot. And while we can’t make the germs go away (if only!), we can help you feel a little more prepared, a little more grounded and a lot more supported.
Pediatric emergency visits: what parents need to know
Summertime is in full swing! It’s time to be active outdoors and take advantage of longer days with swimming, outdoor dining, bicycling and more. This also means it’s time to use extra care in preventing injuries that could lead to an emergency department visit. If an emergency visit cannot be avoided, consider taking your child to a pediatric emergency department. We have all the information below on why pediatric-specific emergency departments are a great fit for kids.