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Sometimes you need answers to the little everyday things that parents encounter. And sometimes, you just need someone to encourage you through all of the craziness and challenges of parenthood. Welcome to Parent-ish, a blog from the experts at Children's Mercy.

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“I don’t want to go to school:” What it really means – and how to help

As the new school year quickly approaches, many families are prepping for new routines —packing lunches, managing homework and adjusting to earlier bedtimes. But for some children, the return to school brings more than just the usual jitters. It can trigger a deeper struggle: school avoidance. 

Tantrums 101

Tantrums. If you're a parent, you've likely encountered them—maybe in the cereal aisle, during bedtime or right before school. While they can be frustrating and exhausting, tantrums are a normal part of childhood development. The good news? With the right tools and understanding, you can navigate them with more confidence and calm.

How to transition infants from milk to solid foods

Every new phase of a baby’s life comes with a real mix of emotions. It’s exciting! It’s stressful! It’s joyful! It’s messy! The weaning stage is all of that and more. Before you feel too overwhelmed, take it from us: there’s no such thing as perfect weaning and every kid is one of a kind. But, we're here for tips on how to tackle starting solid foods so baby can be happy, fed and safe.

What to do when your child gets an animal bite

Children are naturally curious, and sometimes that leads to unexpected encounters with animals—whether it’s a playful pet or a wild creature. While most bites are minor, some can lead to serious infections or require special medical attention. Here's what parents need to know about keeping their children safe and ensuring proper treatment for an animal bite.

Crafts for the uncrafty

Children are likely to spend more time on screens during the summer months. One way to get their minds working is…crafts! Stimulating activities like crafts can calm the mind, encourage creativity and advance fine motor skills in children.

Outbreaks don’t come with a manual – but this can help

Let’s be real: parenting during an outbreak like the flu or measles is like trying to juggle flaming swords while riding a unicycle—on a tightrope—over a pit of Legos. It’s a lot. And while we can’t make the germs go away (if only!), we can help you feel a little more prepared, a little more grounded and a lot more supported. 

Pediatric emergency visits: what parents need to know

Summertime is in full swing! It’s time to be active outdoors and take advantage of longer days with swimming, outdoor dining, bicycling and more. This also means it’s time to use extra care in preventing injuries that could lead to an emergency department visit. If an emergency visit cannot be avoided, consider taking your child to a pediatric emergency department. We have all the information below on why pediatric-specific emergency departments are a great fit for kids.

Adulting 101: Helping your teen build a resume and land their first job

Watching your child take their first steps into the working world is both exciting and a little nerve wracking. Whether they’re looking for a summer job or starting to explore long-term career interests, your support can make a big difference. We’ve outlined 7 ways you can help them navigate job applications and build a strong resume.

Brain full? How parents are lightening the mental load

Parenting is a full-time job — and then some. Beyond the visible tasks like school drop-offs and bedtime stories lies the often invisible “mental load”: the constant planning, remembering and organizing that keeps a household running. For many families, this load can fall on one partner more than the other, leading to stress and burnout. But it doesn’t have to be that way. 

Essential summer safety tips for your family

Summer is here, bringing with it pool days, barbeques and family vacations. To ensure you have a fun and safe summer, we've outlined some essential tips to keep your family protected while enjoying the summer sun. 

Addressing body image concerns in teen boys

While stereotypes may say differently, body image issues are not exclusive to girls; they are increasingly prevalent among teen boys as well, often leading to significant mental and physical health challenges. As parents, understanding these issues and knowing how to support your son or other teen boys in your life is crucial. Keep reading for insight into common signs of body image issues, the role of social media and ways to help foster a healthy body image. 

Let them play: Why play is the secret ingredient to your child's wellbeing

As parents, we often prioritize our children’s health, education and safety—but what if one of the most powerful tools for their development is something as simple as play? 

Summer break guide: Boosting your kids' and teen's mental health

Summer break is a time of excitement and relaxation for many kids and teens, but it can also bring unique challenges to their mental health. Without the structure and routine of school, young people may experience increased anxiety, loneliness and boredom. But as parents, there are things you can do to help support your child's mental health during the summer months. Keep reading for tips for your whole family to have a great summer!

When a pet dies: How to help your child grieve

Pets play a significant role in many children’s lives. Kids who are actively engaged in pet care can form deep bonds that resemble human-to-human relationships. Pets can be companions, confidants, friends and sources of comfort. In some cases, pets are almost like siblings. When a pet dies, children experience significant loss. Keep reading to learn how you can help your child grieve when you lose a pet.

Welcome to motherhood: Tips to adjust to life with a little one

Becoming a mom is a big change filled with joy, challenges and lots of special moments. In honor of Mother's Day, we asked moms to think back on their motherhood journeys and share some helpful tips on how to adjust to life with kids. Whether you're just starting out or looking for some new ideas, these tips can help you through the fun and chaos of being a parent.